No story just memories.

Many times these words have passed my lips with technically meaning all but the truth
No reference to my receiver and no impact on their agility
Nor my author,but my verdict on all conclusions neither denies nor excepts my true abilities.
Become accustom to raw images of reality because delusional thoughts detailed with cruel awakenings substitute for liveliness fantasies.
Stay fixed with your written ways and refusal of change
will work as your enemy in all actuality
Broad daylight makes our shadows less evident if exposed to shining stars
blinding us from what our true tragic flaws
We just don't fly right with complicated fuel and complex directions
we saturate ourselves with over materialized and regenerated lies
Just to allow us to soar with the clouds and land with the birds
Lurking as prey for our predator opposite of all life cycles with oppositions to survive
though I, the author of this passage and the editor as well
I should understand my reason for the use of my being and my reasoning to dwell
As likely many times these words have passed my lips
with technically meaning all but the truth
You can't miss what's already there and missing what lost is all a possibility
there's no stories there's just decisions
no side chosen just opportunities without precision
no regrets just broken promises and lessons learned
story book fantasies and friendships with bridges burned
Let it become part of your history and not lead away your presence
Remember its all your mere entity and mere essence
There's no story just memories
Fading beyond your imagination
no matter how hard you try to remember
there's no happy endings just novice beginnings for those pretenders.
no anthology
no story just philosophy
Many times these words have passed my lips with technically meaning all but the truth
No reference to my receiver and no impact on their agility
Nor my author,but my verdict on all conclusions neither denies nor excepts my true abilities.
I have no book
No story
just my instrument & practicality
No fairy tale mentality
There's just reality



fin...

ps. i kno the ending is a lil rough.

Hello all..
well 2day was the 2nd day of my college program.
ugh tiring already.
so im taking this class called intercultural communications...
basically meaning learning how to communicate with people from otha cultures.
class is okay but the professor just seems to talk alot.
i got lost in my writing so the nxt post is what i decided to write in the 2hrs that he tlkd.
hope ya like it.
oh yea the ending is a little rough..
ima fix it eventually

fin...

Words.

swimming in my own sea of lies that keep me emotionally afloat.

SAMPLE

Sittin hear watchn the BET awards just chilln.
They're honoring Michael Jackson.
I actually like a majority of the show.
I love how everyone is kinda dressed like Michael Jackson.
Kerri Hilson did excellent I love her performance.
Ne-yo's performance of Michael's "The lady in My life" was flawless...

to add that i love Ne-yo

Okay basic point of this is that.
I love the song "The Lady in My Life".
& I love the song "Hey Lover' - LL Cool J & Boyz II Men.
if u havent heard both songs. "Hey Lover" samples "The Lady in My Life".
both excellent songs that I love to listen to.
& just because I love both songs sooo much...
HERE YA GO!!!

TERRELL CARTER

Alrighty here we have Terrell Carter he's a actor/singer.
If u seen any of Tyler Perry's work movie/play he's been in there.
Anyway for sum reason i found myself listening to his music today.
BOY can sang...not sing...SANG....l0l
but if you've seen a Tyler Perry play/movie he's been singn thru out the movie...
check it out...i would buy his cd instead of burn it.

p.s he's fine i kno!!

Terrell Carter

GET TO KNO ME

So im sittn here...
watchn madea's class reunion.
& sudden curiosity crossed my mind about how my cuzin's ex bf travis was doin
bc a friend of his "nyce" had recently passed away.
So i txt travis hey wassup. i was just wondern how u & aaron are takin the thing with nyce..
i only asked him that question bc i actually care about them...if i didnt care how they felt i woulda bin like fck it...dey on their own.
SO travis doesnt even txt me bak..his brother does.
Ive neva met the boy in my life.
& he was like u neva met nyce u didnt even noe him, how the fck do u think they feel...bla bla bla basically judging ppl
anyways i was like i actually knew of nyce bc we went to the same college program.


end of story im tired of ppl judging me...even in a time of tragedy black/white/green etc. ppl have the need to judge people...
its a shame too. like its totally ridic.
& maybe the nxt time sum1 dies just so i wont get judged i wont even ask how they are or how the person who experienced the tragedy is feel.
its not that i dnt care...
its that they must be well enuff to judge other ppl right...

rhetorical question....
answer is RIGHT.

@ this moment right now i could careless about ne thing...
all i need is my pplz ne one outside my circle @ this very moment i really could care less about ne more...

For Your Info....

YOUNG GIRLS: i dnt do the phone calls from blocked numbers...i dnt play dat shit no more...when we were in middle school..freshmen year it was ard...but we all gettn too old for dat shit.. this actually goes for everyone BLOCKED PHONE CALLS COMMENCE AN ASS KICKN. I dnt do that myspace drama...or txt msg drama...if u got a problem call me on a NON BLOCKED fone number & we can tlk about it.

YOUNG BOULS: i dnt do the drama with ex girlfriends or so called bestfriends...if we go together & u like some1 else lemme noe so i can keep it pushn without ya. dont cheat or beat around the bush.

EVERYONE: now here ive told u how it is....judge me on ya private time...i dnt even care no more...the name "bitch" wont be tolerated. If u dnt noe me, dnt txt me, call me, msg me via myspace/facebook.

Lastly if ur gonna judge me think of something good...."dumb bitch" doesnt justify ne thing honestly. I'm not dumb...if i was honey do u think I'd be getting published or have a 3.49 GPA.
Say sum shit that I'll remember u sayn to me for life.

fin.....

Haha yes im back again for the 2nd time 2day..
I'd figured i spend the day..blogging.
so anyone who knows me knows that i like to try different things.
im experiementing with listening to new music & all
alrighty not my type of music but im kinda likn
afro-punk tho...
stuff i raw but for sum reason i like it. take a listen..

Afro-Punk 2009 Playlist

MUSICAL GROUP

Since I was told im pretty good at this blogging thing I thought I'd bring attention to some stuff that bothers me.
Ok with groups....singing groups feel me.
In the past ba-gillion years..LMAO not even a number i kno.
ANYWAYS.
Thing that bothers me is that singing groups/rap groups might have like 6 members and they on focus on 1 person...

You can tell if i musical group is focusing on 1 person because that person is most likely singing lead or is most seen in the music videos.
RIIIIIIIIIGGGGHHHHTTTTT?!?!?!?!

that was a rhetorical question!

Then the singing group breaks up because of it...
& the one person ironically becomes a solo artist and SUDDENLY rises to fame & while the other members careers die off.
I find it odd how that lead person/ or the person they focus on is saved financially as well.
While the others live in the poor house.
& find it also ironic how this lead person/member finds themselves in almost the middle of the pictures....
ORRRR.... the group all of a sudden is like (i.e. Nina and the Ninettes)....
hope u understood the concept i was tryna to make
LETS TAKE IT BACK SO U KNO WHAT I MEAN!!!.

sittin the time machine typing in......

1960-The Supremes



To be honest we all reconize Diana Ross @ the right ok.
they played off the focusing on her by put her on the right of the pic not in the middle.
BUT...the name of the group was later changed to Diana Ross and The Supremes.
Then as she went solo everyone had to suffer.



& here we see homegirl made it out of the group pretty well.
SIDEBAR...
im not even gonna go into how Florence Ballard was kicked from the group...maybe because she was a better singer...& how she originally was rumor to have been with Barry Gordy & then he started to bang with Diana Ross bc she was lead....
SOUNDS ALOT LIKE THE MOVIE DREAMGIRLS DOESNT IT!?!?!?! MHM....

kkk...nxt group
1966-Jackon 5


haha ok here we go the Jackson 5..
yes the family that birthed Janet Jackson.
Already from the jump the groups lead was michael...
he was a great singer i admit [God rest his soul]
but same thing happened to Michael...
come on now we can't even act like Michael wouldnt eventually get smart & become solo.
which was a great idea...
True his brothas could sing, dance, & play instruments but it just wasnt the same without Michael.
& eventually they faded away.



& Michael Jackson became the most loved musical artist in the WORLD...
NOT IN AMERICA...THE WORLD!!!!

ps...i might add back in the day that pic i put up of the jackson 5 they were nice lookn boys...hehe just lettn ya know.

last group here. then i'll list...yep this is a long post i kno!!!

time machine set to

1983-New Edition



Alrighty...ok I kno this is the ORIGINAL New Edition..yes thats Bobby Brown.
We all know after he left the group he became the biggest star.
Nevermind Bobby for the moment...
Lets review the picture here...who is in the middle of the picture..
think hard...real hard...
RALPH TRESVANT...
the lead of new edition...
long story short new edition was formed around Ralph.
New Edition has broken up many times & gotten back togetha..
HEY!!!
Wait...Bel Biv DeVoe was also 3 members of New Edition.
NVM..then everyone came out well with this group.
Ralph came out with a solo project.
So did Bobby...
So did that guy that replacement Bobby his name is Johnny Gill...
yea that otha dude from LSG- Levert Sweat Gill
Johnny Gill went solo & got into a new group.



New Edition around 2001
the original group w/ Bobby Brown & Johnny Gill
looks like they moved Ralph a lil out of the limelight by puttn Bobby Brown next to him ....

Alrighty now this meaning the group breaking up has happened to many groups...
the groups are breaking up but not admiting it...lets be honest
when they dont even wanna be at the same awards show its a problem....

its happened to groups like

Destiny's Child
Leaders of the New Skool
New Edition
The Supremes..well Diana Ross & the Supremes
The Isley Brothers
SWV
Debarge
B2K
IMX aka Immature
Dru Hill

& the list goes on...
Long post I kno...it was just on my brain tho...
thats all folks.

fin...

JIGS VS JUGS

BACKGROUND INFO:

Alrighty here we are....i doubt i put this jawn up here cuz i didnt write is
Ma killa Dupree did...
this jawn was originally on the RTC blog site
anyway this post's purpose is to explain in DETAIL!!!!!
the difference between JIGs & JUGs
im putting this up here because if i bump into anotha JUG ima SCREAM....
so CHICAS!!!!....or LADIES...means the same thing
READ this.....
MATTA FACT READ IT 7 TIMES...
they say if u say sumthin 7 times u'll remember for a long time
in this case hope it works!!!
ANYWAYS....
Ladies read & plz make sure the dude ur tlkn to IS NOT...i repeat IS NOT a JUG.
Not sayn to let him go if he is....
BUT!!!!! U should make arrangements to trade him in for a quality JIGGY/JIG
FELLAS OR CHICOS...SAME THING...
If u think u're a JIG & u really are a JIG plz let ur self be seen
we're tired of JUGS.
DUDE IF UR A JUG DNT EVEN TRY TO APPROACH ME MAN!!!
BC IF I REALIZE UR A JUG I WILL HIT THE GROUND RUNNING FAST...
NOT COLLECTING $200 AFTA I PAST GO!
& GETTN THE HELL OUTTA DODGE.
enuff from me!
ENJOY!!!

p.s dupree had to change thee pic...SORRY..
everything else is the same.
















POST- D U P R E E.

My Killas and Myself came up with these words.
JIG & JUG

JIG -

is a fly funkshway brov who is living life with richness and freedom. Shares his self through his mind. He shows his personality through his heart. Wears clothes that embody his personality. Mind ready to be taught and body ready be used for the good. Surrounds his self with people that are looking to achieve goals in the future.

JUG-

is a brov who doesn't see what's real. Believes he has to live life through experience. Will create a path or follow a path that is already set for him. Won't let someone help or guide them to the right direction. Hurts themselves and effects everyone without them even knowing. Creates a negative message in someones mind. Doesn't show any interest in themselves or anyone around them which damages the appearance.

Examples:

JIG- Andre Benjamin, Fonzworth Bentley,Kanye West, Barak Obama & Kid Cudi

Examples:

JUG- NOT WORTHY ENOUGH TO BE PUT ON THE BLOG

The Ending Result:

So before Approaching a young lady please mention to her which

one you consider yourself. It will save her the hassle of trying to firgure

you out in the long run. For the ones out there who perfer JIGS

Please do not lower your

standards for a JUG we won't compromise.

So if you're a JUG im not bashing you for

it you just might want to get it together YOU..,..

.......Just thought i would make it Publicly.

Otherside of the Game

I kno u'll wonder why i decided to call this
"the otherside of the game"
not to much explaining behind it...well kinda it is.
but today i went with the girls [pat, dupree, & que] to a riversharks game.
usually i would think its boring but we had the best time.
we all decided to take a countless amount of pictures outside & inside the statidum
...i guess...well wait the baseball field[makes more sense eh...?]

ANYWAYS.

dupree had posted on her blog earlier this week...

check the blog [http://crushxout.blogspot.com/]<~put dis jawn in the address bar

LIKE I WAS SAYN....
dupree has posted on her blog earlier this week she wanted to try photography.

& she wanted to buy sum xtra expensive camera

[haha with no job of course]
l0l u gotta love these big dreams this girl has.

LIKE I WAS SAYN....

yes i kno i digress ALOT...most of the time.

SO while we were takn pics today..i realized dat i wasnt half bad @ takn pics.
& that i might wanna try photography....

end result of this whole thing is that

@ my school we have a art photo class u can take
& best believe this chick is gonna b all in there...
haha thats all this whole story was about.....
so this coming of the title of this post....is that DUH!!!!
im going to try a new form of creative art....
sure i write...but i wanna broaden my vertical elipsing horizion....
LMFAO that doesnt even make sense....but sounded hella good didnt ya
see im already pretty nice with words....
HERE I GO DIGRESSING AGAIN! ugh.....
basically the reason for the title "otherside of the game" is that
i wanna try a new art...& maybe try sumthin otha than writing...
maybe if i keep my mind off of writing for a while something nice will come to mind...

SURE..
i coulda told u that i just wanted to try photography bc im not 1/2 bad @ it...

but that woulda bin wayyyyyyy.....tooooo easy...
i rather explain my thought process behind everything...[hehe long thought processes too]
well thats all folks!!!!

fin...

MICHAEL JACKSON THE KING OF POP

Michael J. Jackson

aka The King Of Pop

(August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)



One of my favorites
Michael Jackson -Human Nature [live]

LIVING SINGLE EPISODE

[counterclock wise] Maxine, Khadijah, Regine, Sinclair




See ever since the beginning of 2009 Ive began comparing people to characters in tv shows/movies. & i found 3 comparsions of me & my friends. i think our personalities resemble those of the 3 main female characters of living single. My friend Dupree-Khadijah James. Her twin Deonah-Sinclair James. & myself- Maxine Shaw...antorney at law. haha. Anyway Khadijah is the mother like figure who always knows what to do when it comes to everyone else's life except her own love life. Khadijah runs a magazine called Flava. My friend Dupree is also the mother type and knows what to do in everyone else's life except her own love life.....Dupree loves to write. Sinclair James the light hearted cousin of Khadijah who seems naive at times and can make you happy when ever your feeling down. Alot like Deonah who is light hearted and loves to make people laugh & some of the stuff she says sounds alot like some stuff Sinclair would say. Lastly Maxine Shaw the friend of Khadijah and Sinclair who finds her way over to their home everyday just to eat all of their food. Maxine is very defensive and never knows what she wants and for some reason finds an attraction to Kyle[shut up deneen]....in the end Maxine eventually falls in love with kyle even tho in the beginning of their relationship she claims to hate him. Long story short we're alot alike[ i dont like to go into details].



[left to right]

Khadijah- Dupree

Maxine-Monyee

Sinclair- Deonah






fin....

SHAWN CHRYSTOPHER

1st song on this list. idk it just seems meaningful idk y.

R.I.P DAVON JONES AKA NYCE.

R.I.P Davon Jones aka Nyce.

Alpha - January 22, 1993
Omega - June 24, 2009
gone but never forgotten

Although he isn't the 1st adolescent life to be taken by violence. Davon has in the lack of better words become a statistic of black men to have died young as a course of violence. He was in the wrong place at the wrong time. Though it maybe a saddening fact but other young may follow this course.
Even though I didn't know Davon that well, we were in the same college program and I spent a whole summer with him. When I first heard of his passing it seemed so surreal to me and I honestly couldn't believe it at first. This situation being that it happened early this morning is still taking effect on his many friends and family members.
It maybe true that death of someone who wasn't that close to you maybe hit people it different ways because everyone is a diverse individual but it deeply hurt me to hear of his passing. Although I can never experience the pain and hurt his family and close friends are experiencing I am just appalled that it happened to him. Like my friend Dupree told me "its becomin to normal for us to die young." The realist as I call her is completely right although I wish she wasn't.
I just feel like this basically. You always imagine/dream about your future and think that all the people you are around and have made conversation with will be there 3 years down the line. Then when you hear about someone you met or even spent some of your time with has died. It NEVER crosses your mind that the dream/imaginatory thought you had would never turn out that way. And to be completely honest it hurts. but after all this I just feel speechless.

fin.

Crucial moments

Although i cant seem to write about anything that seems worth writing
I'm here just thinking
How 4 members of our street team "RTC"
graduated the other day.
now i'm realizing how bad i wanted school to be over
I guess i just wasnt completely ready for those specific people to leave.
I think we've all heard the saying that time is something that you can never get back.
Most likely its true that i will see those 4 members alot this summer but we won't be at the same school.
So i was listening to this song called "School Daze' by J. Cole.
&& it just spoke to me..the lyrics i mean
mayb irrelevant to some but means a lil sumthin to me

fin

you must be

When i'm with you//you know you make my days//so beautiful//with your different ways//you make me lighter//i'm movin with the wind//love you know what you got for me//i got for you too//we can't pretend


give me another chance to breathe in//you got all the things i need and //together we're just so complete//you must be the reason i'm alive


you say i'm like fresh air for the birth of your new eyes..i say you're like the sun bright enlightening my skies today.. We got together to create a new world
only a real man can understand the gift of this girl..bells are ringin cause what you're bringin has got me singin..now i can breathe in you're all i'm needin love is a breeze and spring is the season i'm feelin so alive inside and you must be the reason..

~Gina Rene...[you must be]

What it might be

I was givn the lil sis Felisha a lil advice 2day..about guys
she was telln me bout sum boy stuff. [not gon put u on blast ma]
but i responded with. "people continue to search so long for things they havent found in otha ppl & it honestly doesnt always mean the physical counts"
i also sed "you have to understand that everyone may not have their own soul but they have a soul colony. feel me??? I'll explain. Like i think of it as we humans dnt have 1 person until we've tried everything".
conclusion & basic point of this post is......

drum roll!!!!

is that...
we all have to except that love may come in different packages & maybe @ 1st it wont be that the person will fall in complete love with you...like in the movies..contrary to popular belief...
can't we as human being just settle for someone just having love for you & not being in love with you...for at least for the 1st couple moments.
& women not being upset that a man doesnt wanna get married to you for wateva reason he may have....but just consider ya self @ least 1/2 way okay with them wanting to be with you....

yea i kno i say this now cuz im 17
&& i really havent experienced love
but if you could explain to me a straight definition of love
i'll surely fall in it.
like my homie dupree sed
she hates the phrase ""Experience is Everything""
but thing is...experience is everything
how do you know what something feels like until you experienced the change???
you can't always take whateva happens to some1 else as you forewarning can you???
doesn't that just qualify you as some1 who "might" be afraid to live??
maybe?

This Ladyee

So today im basically pooped 2 bbqs in 1 day...
anyways my 1st bbq was @ a nursing home in camden
it was like a family time thing..feel me
i feel bad for the people that live there.....
then again those older in age may consider themselves lucky to be on earth anotha day
then again i feel bad they have to live in misery
& that they cant be with their families like they want to
it makes me thankful that i'm healthy but depresses me @ the same time.

ANYWAYS.

as we're about to leave the bbq my gmom says
to one of the older ladies [that lives there] "have a good day."

[& for sum reason tears are about to come to my eyes.]

because this woman was wheel chair bound & looked maybe 80 yrs old mayb more

[im starting to digress, i know]

but this woman turns to us & says
"be safe on your way home...be safe walking out of here ok"

[she seemed more worried about us than herself]

at this point she's holding hands with my gmom & says
"when you walk look back for me plz"

[now that im actually writing it...im bout to cry.]

for sum reason..it just meant sumthin to me...feel me.
idk what it was/wat it is...
but it meant so much.

QUESTION?

still trying to think of something worth puttin up here
its kinda hard cuz i dnt wanna sound dumb or anything.
Woo..woo...woo[ma sayn dnt STEAL!].
Question...if anyone would love to answer.
Why do "ladies" take chance of being brave once with the wrong guys?
Made me kinda think of things ive been thru.
now trust me im NOT an expert...
but can someone explain to me why we pick the worst guys to admit our feelings to.
i think its utterly ridiculous for gurls to admit their feelings
then for sum reason the guy ends up being a total A**hole.
& screws you over.
ive been thru this before...

ha more than once

I guess its just ironic how things play out for girls sometimes.
Like idk..its just weird.
& its very rare a guy gets hurt.
just a thought..
im not saying girls should date like guys...b/c in the end its wrong...
mhm maybe just maybe ...
idk i think on it..&& maybe eventually gget back to you

fin.....
well for now

DRAKE

Alrighty for all those haters!!
I LOVE DRAKE!!! aka Wheel Chair Jimmy from Degrassi
#1 can we all admit the boy is fine
#2 his music/rapn hasnt become commercial just yet.
I honestly love this guy for some reason.
I think his music is just honest & real.
He's not the type of rapper to talk about 1/2 the stuff he doesnt have.
There's just something about him.
I believe that he's about to become the protege of Lil Wayne if he isnt already.
Drake has had at least 10 collaborations with Lil Wayne & at least 4 with Trey Songz



& here's the playlist.

DRAKE

SLUM VILLAGE

Hey!
Yes anotha post from me...
We may have several today because I just don't feel like doin work.
So we might be promoting a little music today.

Consider yourself lucky!

My next favorite hiphop group would have to be Slum Village.
A group originated from Detriot
& has had many collabos with artists like Kanye, Dwele & John Legend.
The few songs on this playlist are enough said.

SLUM VILLAGE>

Little Brother

Little Brother is one of the best hip hop groups to me.
People have been sleepn on them for a minute.
They speak the truth...
They remind me of the Roots mixed with idk whatever hip hop group.
For some reason i can't find the songs i love on the imeem website.
Wackness I know!!

LITTLE BROTHER

No Exact Title.

I'm sitting here...
I'm suppose to be doing my review for my finals. [ironic i rarely study]
But i stopped by to share...
My motivation of today...
maybe a fellow quote.
It helps me realize that not everything can stay the same.
& that change is sometimes for the best.
Change just let me FINALLY wake up and
see that God has been pulling things away from me for a reason.
Because in the end, the day will continue on & I'll be forced to transition.
With or without excepting the change.

Sounds pretty good doesnt it.
I thought of it all by myself..I was sitting here about to give you a quote.
When I just thought of everything that has happened to me.
& how ive gotten overly upset & i just realized exactly what my mom was saying.
She told me "grow up monyee [not the exact name she used]".
I used to believe that I was growing up & taking responsibility.
I honestly wasnt tho.
What she was saying was transition & conform to the change because its best for you.
Maybe its not what she meant but my insight is good enough for me.
[giggle giggle].

Priscilla Renea

Dis chick to crazy.
Priscella Renea is an up coming artist.
in video #1 she seriously sings the dictionary.
in video #2 she sings her version of Best I Ever Had by Drake
check her out.

JOSH BENNET FREESTYLE

Yes, Dupree u might b mad.
But i found the freestyle of Joshua Bennet from Brave New Voices.
Found it on Youtube.
He's freestyling off of Notorious B.I.G's song Unbeliveable
check it.

OLD KANYE

It came across my mind while i was lookn at youtube.
I found an old video of Kanye West sampling an old song.
This is the kanye I believe we're all missing.
Well this is the Kanye I miss.
The kanye with the jesus piece & the roc-a-fella chain.
That made the best beats minus the auto tune.

TEXTERS VS CALLERS

Post - Monyee

Yup well I'm finally here to discuss TEXTERS vs. CALLERS
a topic given to me by the C.E.O Dupree :)
this is what I came up with
TEXTERS
are people who express themselves through a persona by sending
a misinterpreted exchange including words that lack emotion.
texters allow empty messages and words to continue their
path to a perplexed receiver who can't explicate or
more or less respond to the message
without an occasional "huh?" or "what"?


CALLERS
are courageous customers ready to purchase any allotment
of the receiver's intellect they can acquire.
A caller isn't hesitant to express themselves
and is brave enough to embody their
emotions completely without hesitation


The Test
now lets test our selves which one are u?
Texter?
or
Caller?
Take this situation for what it is.
Say you want to break up with your old jiggy(bf)
making him exclusively a JUG.
Would you call him to argue and tell him your done?
OR
Would you text him to argue and tell him your done?
Remind yourself before you make this decision
that when you text there's no emotion with words
unless you decide to unsoundly express yourself by using profanity
the decision is yours
or would you call?
the firm question is:
would he get the same message?
&&
would you get the same result?


Questions:
what we need to ask ourselves is have we ever met a whole hearted CALLER?
&&
Could you ever hit myspace, facebook..etc. without saying l0l?